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Samantha Gluck's avatar

We raised 7 kids, never used contraception (obv. Haha), and formula never touched the lips of my children. I don’t say this as a way of bragging. I say it because, to me, at the time, it was just what I did. Many of my friends used formula and bottles, but just as many didn’t. The ones who did, typically had careers outside the home, drove cars of the Porsche and BMW ilk. I homeschooled my kids. My side of the family made snide remarks about how we’d have more money, if I used my college degree and had a career. They were also horrified that I homeschooled.

One time, when I was out grocery shopping with my 4 kids under the age of 7, a man stopped and asked me if I knew “how that happened.” This was, ostensibly, a joke implying I didn’t realize that intimate relations causes babies. THEN, he had the audacity to ask me if they were all from the same man! I was very young and really didn’t know what to say. If memory serves, I simply responded to his questions with a short “yes,” not quite realizing how rude they were (even if he didn’t mean to be rude) until sometime later.

The other day, my husband and I were at the feed store to replenish supplies for our animals. There’s a young girl there -- maybe about 19 to 22 years old. She recently had a baby. I believe, but am not certain, she is the daughter of the owners. She brings her baby to work (which is a great blessing), but I was saddened to see her bottle feeding him. And I KNOW it was formula, which looks quite different from expressed breast milk.

Out of 7 kids we raised in this house, ONLY 2 have told us they hope to have many children when married and live on one income (which is NOT easy nowadays). The others have expressed the desire for either NO kids (one has said this), or only ONE no more than TWO. We gently remind them of the joy of children, the dangers of birth control, and all the “things.” But it doesn’t seem to be getting through. Maybe it is, but I don’t see any outward indication of this.

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Cork Hutson's avatar

Interesting post. You're right though. None of these would be "gov't approved".

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