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Clear Sky America's avatar

Well written article on a subject I have thought about deeply for years now. I am approaching 60 and 40 years ago my college girl friend had an abortion. It seemed the right thing to do at the time but now it haunts me on a frequent basis. I have written several articles on fate and believe God blessed us with free will. But I cannot, nor will I ever, understand why things in this world work out the way they do. In many ways my life has worked out well, at least from a worldly understanding, as I went on to marry another woman and have three wonderful kids. But, in the moment, 40 years ago, I took fate into my own hands and tried to play the part of God. I have asked for forgiveness ever since. We simply cannot understand what God's grand plan is and deciding to end the life of the unborn is not accepting the fate God had for us.

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Melissa Mistretta's avatar

When I was twenty years old, a good friend of mine got pregnant. She wasn’t ready for a child; becoming a mother would have torn her life apart.

We were young, and had been taught all our lives that abortion was okay in situations like this. It wasn’t even a question. She needed an abortion. I went with her to the doctor.

I don’t think the gravity of what had happened struck either of us right away. Our friendship was never quite the same; my friend, already suffering from depression and fractured identity, only got worse.

Years later, I heard her question her choice. “I had to do it, right?”

I think about it a lot, and wonder whether having that baby, while the most difficult thing she’d ever done, would’ve changed her life for the better.

It’s a difficult situation. I’m hesitant to call for bans for everyone. But at the very least, the mainstream liberal narrative that dismisses it as a simple ‘do-over,’ a minor thing that means nothing—this needs to change.

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